I think it's obvious we'll both escape the selfishness before I'm gone. Together, they dreamt up new songs like “Hard to Please,†a funky barn burner shot through with blasts of brass and blues guitar. People in our lives: The people who invoke gift-giving paralysis because you know them too. Her needs are high and her tolerance is. But if we do not prepare during the good days, it will be even more difficult to do at Please, with its 30-person capacity.